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Monday, 31 December 2012

A Tree Is A Sum Of Its Parts

The Leaf: "I'm the Hand. I provide the tree with energy by turning sunlight into food. I am also the beauty of the tree. Without me, the tree is ugly and cannot survive."

The Branch: "I'm the Arm. I grow the Hands that provide the tree with food. I give variety to the tree. Without me, the tree will be a lonely figure and cannot survive."

The Trunk: "I am the Pillar. I carry water and nutrients from the root to all parts of the tree. I also give the tree its shape and stability . Without me, the tree has no strength and cannot survive."

The Root: "I'm the Anchor and the Source of water and nutrients to the tree. Without me, the tree will starve to death."

The Tree: "We are the tree. Without the presence of each of you, there is no tree."

Friday, 28 December 2012

How We Define Our Problem

What is the connection between: (a) an aeroplane, (b) a donkey and (c) an escalator? For a person whose problem is a means of getting from one place to another, the solution is a means of transport. The three happen to be different means of transport. That is why they say, "How we define a problem could be the problem." It could also be the solution.

Friday, 21 December 2012

Merry Christmas

"Love,” they say, "is the affinity of being with being." I send Love and Peace to all my contacts and wish you a very merry Christmas and a self-fulfilling 2013.

Wednesday, 19 December 2012

Stepping out of our comfort zones.

According to Buddhist tradition, the Buddha achieved enlightenment after he had encountered four events during his four journeys outside his father's palatial mansion:

1. He saw a very old man
2. He saw a very sick man
3. He saw a corpse
4. He saw a religious mendicant

The prince left his home and family for ever to become a mendicant monk at the age of 35.

Lesson: Some of the things that have the greatest potentials to change our lives, for good or bad, do not necessarily reside within our immediate and familiar environments. They are outside. To find them, we must step out of our comfort zones.

Tuesday, 18 December 2012

BARRY THE BOOK: THE SPIRIT OF CHRISTMAS

Bobby was getting cold sitting out in his back yard in the snow. Bobby didn't wear boots; he didn't like them and anyway he didn't own any. The thin sneakers he wore had a few holes in them and they did a poor
job of keeping out the cold.

Bobby had been in his backyard for about an hour already. And, try as
he might, he could not come up with an idea for his mother's Christmas
gift. He shook his head as he thought, "This is useless, even if I do
come up with an idea, I don't have any money to spend.

Ever since his father had passed away three years ago, the family of five
had struggled. It wasn't because his mother didn't care, or try, there
just never seemed to be enough. She worked nights at the hospital, but the small wage that she was earning could only be stretched so far.

What the family lacked in money and material things, they more than made
up for in love and family unity. Bobby had two older and one younger
sister, who ran the household in their mother's absence.

All three of his sisters had already made beautiful gifts for their
mother. Somehow it just wasn't fair. Here it was Christmas Eve already, and he had nothing.

Wiping a tear from his eye, Bobby kicked the snow and started to walk
down to the street where the shops and stores were. It wasn't easy being
six without a father, especially when he needed a man to talk to.

Bobby walked from shop to shop, looking into each decorated window.
Everything seemed so beautiful and so out of reach. It was starting to
get dark and Bobby reluctantly turned to walk home when suddenly his
eyes caught the glimmer of the setting sun's rays reflecting off of
something along the curb. He reached down and discovered a shiny dime.

Never before has anyone felt so wealthy as Bobby felt at that moment.
As he held his new found treasure, a warmth spread throughout his entire
body and he walked into the first store he saw. His excitement quickly
turned cold when salesperson after salesperson told him that he could not buy anything with only a dime.

He saw a flower shop and went inside to wait in line. When the shop owner
asked if he could help him, Bobby presented the dime and asked if he could buy one flower for his mother's Christmas gift. The shop owner looked at Bobby and his ten cent offering. Then he put his hand on Bobby's shoulder and said to him, "You just wait here and I'll see what I can do for you."

As Bobby waited, he looked at the beautiful flowers and even though he was a boy, he could see why mothers and girls liked flowers.

The sound of the door closing as the last customer left, jolted Bobby back to reality. All alone in the shop, Bobby began to feel alone and afraid.

Suddenly the shop owner came out and moved to the counter. There, before
Bobby's eyes, lay twelve long stem, red roses, with leaves of green and
tiny white flowers all tied together with a big silver bow. Bobby's heart sank as the owner picked them up and placed them gently into a long white box.

"That will be ten cents young man," the shop owner said reaching out his
hand for the dime. Slowly, Bobby moved his hand to give the man his dime.
Could this be true? No one else would give him a thing for his dime!
Sensing the boy's reluctance, the shop owner added, "I just happened to have some roses on sale for ten cents a dozen. Would you like them?"

This time Bobby did not hesitate, and when the man placed the long box
into his hands, he knew it was true. Walking out the door that the owner was holding for Bobby, he heard the shop keeper say, "Merry Christmas, son."

As he returned inside, the shop keeper’s wife walked out. "Who were you
talking to back there and where are the roses you were fixing?" Staring out the window, and blinking the tears from his own eyes, he replied, "A strange thing happened to me this morning. While I was setting up things to open the shop, I thought I heard a voice telling me to set aside a dozen of my best roses for a special gift. I wasn't sure at the time whether I had lost my mind or what, but I set them aside anyway. Then just a few minutes ago, a little boy came into the shop and wanted to buy a flower for his mother with one small dime.

When I looked at him, I saw myself, many years ago. I too was a poor boy
with nothing to buy my mother a Christmas gift. A bearded man, whom I never knew, stopped me on the street and told me that he wanted to give me ten dollars.

When I saw that little boy tonight, I knew who that voice was, and I
put together a dozen of my very best roses."

The shop owner and his wife hugged each other tightly, and as they stepped out into the bitter cold air, they somehow didn't feel cold at all.

- Barry the Book

Sunday, 16 December 2012

Relationship Business

Starting a new loving and sustainable relationship is like starting a new business. Just as you start a new business with a minimum initial financial outlay known as the investment capital, you can also start a new relationship with a minimum initial outlay known as a TRUST fund. This is made up of five relationship portfolio:

T - Truthfulness
R - Reliability
U - Understanding
S - Steadfastness

T - Tolerance

As you cannot start a new business with the expectation of an immediate return on your investment, so you cannot start a new relationship based on an expectation of an immediate withdrawal from your Relationship TRUST fund.

The initial investment you bring into either takes time to grow. At the initial stage, you will need to treat both as your PET. This means you must exercise great Patience. You must Endure the ups and downs. Most importantly, you must allow Time to bring out the best in them.

Who says starting and building a new relationship is not a business?

Friday, 14 December 2012

A great example of loving self and others.

Before you make a decision to do anything, consider which of the following 5 categories it falls into:

✓ Something that benefits others as well as yourself;

✓ Something that is helpful to others and is not damaging to you;

✓ Something that may take advantage of others but no real harm is done;

✓ Something that is harmful to others and not beneficial to you.

Not doing anything that harms you and or others is a great example of loving self and others.

Extracted from 8000 Years of Wisdom Book 1 by Hua-Ching Ni

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