MAM Coaching's 4As simple problem solving techniques

(1)  Accepting the existence of the problem without running away from it.
(2)  Allowing the problem to pass over by letting go of any unnecessary resistance.
(3)  Awareness of the cause(s) or effect(s) of the problem and of any lessons learnt from it

(4) Action planning to include a list of all the activities you will need to take to move you to the next level.

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Follow your conscience, not the crowd.

Voluntarily following another person or a group implies that you trust the person or the group to know where they are going. However, if they don't, then both of you will probably be lost. Follow your conscience and not the crowd.

What are you resisting?

Imagine yourself to be water. You have no enemy. You have no friend. You welcome all and discriminate against none. As you flow and meander your way through your course, you do not need to act as if you were anything else but water to fulfil all your roles for being water. When you meet any obstacles on your path, you are ready to wait as long as it takes the obstacles to lose all their resistance. Then you flow on. This is because you know the value and power of patience.

What course is your life taking now?
What are you resisting?
What does it take to live like water?

One evil turn does not deserve another

It is not a mark of your stupidity when you decide to repay one evil treatment against you with a good one. It is a mark of the strength of your character.

Are you a coward or a valiant?

According to Julius Caesar, "Cowards die many times before their deaths.
The valiant never taste of death but once." In times of fear, what becomes of you, a coward or a valiant?

Love will overcome fear

Fear is the biggest obstacle to love. Love is the essence of life. Without love, there is no life. The difference between fear and love is like the difference between light and darkness, between good and evil. When you embrace love, you overcome fear.

Obedience out of love, not fear

“Wicked people obey out of fear; good people, out of love.”   -Aristotle

What is the reason for your fear? A clean mind has nothing to fear. Fear is the absence of truth. It is the path of darkness. It is the path of the wicked. Straight is the path of good people. There is no relativity in truth. What is evil is evil. For good people, the distinction between good and evil is clear and simple. For the wicked, it is complicated because they think truth is relative. That is why good people have nothing to fear. They obey out of love not out of fear.